STEVE
BIRTH MEMORIES
From Steve’s Journal:
30
September 1981:
…Of the news we have received the last few weeks, most of it
has been untimely, if not downright bad.
We found out Jeanne’s mom had a malignant lump in her
breast, which required a modified mastectomy.
She seemed to come out of surgery fine, but we’re still praying for her
complete recovery.
We also found out that Jeanne is pregnant, which is quite
difficult for us, since we didn’t plan on any more children until we got out of
law school. It has been an emotional and
spiritual struggle, but now we feel at peace with God…
17 May
1982:
Yesterday was my Mother’s birthday, tomorrow is Julina’s
birthday, and today our fifth child is born – Steven Matthew Lambson. When Jeanne became pregnant last fall, our
hearts were filled with anguished questions.
Now all we feel is blessed.
Jeanne’s doctor induced labor, and made the situation more comfortable
with an “epidural”…a way of anesthetizing the lower extremities. She delivered at 2:38 p.m., without much
trouble. She is fine; the baby is 9 lbs.
1 oz., and is also in good shape. We are
delighted and grateful.
24 May
1982:
Steven was born a week ago today, and continues to be a
happy and healthy young nipper.
Notwithstanding our delight, the presence of a newborn with our already
substantial brood of four is every bit the challenge we imagined; but our faith
is that the Lord will bless us to rise to the occasion.
In a burst of sentimentality, Jeanne wanted to change his
name to Steven William. I reluctantly
gave my consent.
26 May
1982:
Today has been overcast, but there have been periods of blue
sky. The last few days have been kind of
“laid back”, in the current vernacular, as we adjust to the schedule of a 9-day
old baby. It is made easier by the fact
that the thrill of having a boy is yet with us.
Many people have been very kind in their concern, and many
have gone beyond the call of duty in seeing to our needs…We are overwhelmed (by
their kindness).
Not
included in journal:
Amusing anecdote:
During her pregnancy with Steve, Jeanne had a dream (nightmare?) that
she delivered a litter of puppies (I don’t know what breed!)
Facts I forgot to mention between September 30th
1981 and May 17th, 1982:
Shortly after discovering Jeanne was pregnant, we explored
our non-insurance options with University Hospital, as we had dropped our
health insurance policy just before entering Law School. They told us of a program where if we would
deposit $100.00 per month for the 9 months of the pregnancy, the total cost
would be: $900.00. That was a great
deal, even 35 years ago. I can’t begin
to tell you what peace of mind that brought, with other challenges we were
facing. We considered it a heaven-sent
miracle.
Two things stuck out to me - I love how you explain what an epidural is, especially since they are so ubiquitous nowadays; I was also interested that you recorded my middle name as Matthew on the 17th - when did that change to William?
ReplyDeleteI thought we had told that story to you...it is explained in the next entry, May 24th:-)
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