I wish to say at the outset, though it will be obvious, that this will require both a mother’s and a father’s point of view…first, because the participation at the end is so very different; but also, because even given equal settings, men and women tend to think of things so differently. So this will be a record, in chronological order, of my memories combined with my journal accounts, of the births of each of our seven natural children.
Emily
Birth Memories
June 26th
Jeanne is now
nearly two weeks overdue. This has been
a trying pregnancy for her. She has had some hard labor pains the last 24
hours, but nothing consistent enough to get her going. She has been a good girl through it all…her
attitude has been wonderful.
July 3rd
It was just a short time after the preceding entry was made that Jeanne began to have close,
hard
We had been
walking just a few minutes when pains came uniformly two minutes apart, and
much more pronounced. We hustled her
back to the hospital, and the nurse began to prepare her.
The next hour
was one of frustration for Jeanne, and the pains became exceedingly intense,
and she feared she might have to go through this for several hours. It helped her considerably when the doctor
arrived, and informed her as to what she could expect. It was only about 20 minutes thereafter,
after a few good thrusts, that Jeanne delivered our second beautiful baby girl
(12:45 a.m. or so), an 8 lb. 12 oz. 21.5 “ bundle of joy.
Things haven’t
been perfect since…nursing isn’t easy…but it has been a great experience. Jeanne’s attitude has been commendable. Her mother has been here since Wednesday, but
left tonight. She was of immeasurable
assistance.