Monday, August 31, 2015

Introducing.....

Our family history blogEach week, Steve and I will share something we have discovered during the week from our family history. We will have three categories:  Lambson/Montague/Jackman, Young/Fraedrich, and Steve and Jeanne Stories.  Steve will be the contributor for the Lambson/Montague/Jackman category, Jeanne for the Young/Fraedrich, and we will trade off on the Steve/Jeanne Stories, so we will identify each week who is contributing. We may not address all three each week, however.



Steve and Jeanne Stories

Jeanne, Steve, Iola Lambson
This photo was taken at our wedding reception in La Habra, California - one week after we were married on January 31, 1975.  I thought I would share the portion of the letter I wrote to my parents which first informed them of a person named Steve Lambson.  (my comments in parenthesis)

October 30, 1974

Dear Dad, Mom, and Juli

HAPPY HALLOWEEN!  It is dark and stormy today but still no snow down here.  It was good to talk to you yesterday. I'm sorry I didn't write but last week was so HECTIC!  I spent every spare minute on my English paper so I could finish it by Wednesday because Darlene (dorm-mate) offered to type it while I was in Tucson (BYU Cougar Band trip).  The trip was fantastic.  It was good to get away for awhile and I also met a guy. He's in band, so I knew him before but we never got together until the trip.  His name is Steve Lambson; he's "tall, dark, and handsome", funny, spiritual, smart, and we really like each other.  He's 21, a R.M from the midwest mission, and he lives in Orem.  We don't know how serious we are about each other because it happened so fast, and maybe nothing will become of it but we realize that time is important (whatever THAT means!).  Anyway, I spent most of the trip with him....

Six sentences is all I wrote about him.  Now, this letter was written on a Wednesday.  My parents likely received it on Saturday, November 2nd.  Steve and I fasted about each other on Sunday, November 3rd and he proposed THAT NIGHT!!!  And, we called my folks on Monday, November 4th to tell them about our engagement!  WHAT WERE WE THINKING?????  But, it sure made sense to us at the time.  And, look how far we have come....


Lambson/Montague/Jackman Stories
Gertrude and daughters Erma, Vera, and Iola


This is an account of a vison my grandmother, Gertrude (Jackman) Montague had concerning her baby brother Shirley.  It is taken from the history of Daniel Wells Jackman, my great-grandfather. 

Daniel Wells Jackman – “We were surprised by the Choir on the evening of the first of February, 1904.  It was a very pleasant affair and we all enjoyed it very much.  I had been assisting them to learn hymns and tunes and they seemed to appreciate my labors.  They made my dear wife acquainted with what they wished to do, and she had a chance to prepare for it.  I knew she was preparing for a surprise, but I thought it was to be on Gertrude, as it was her eleventh birthday.  But when the crowd came in, instead of her schoolmates, I faced the members of the choir.  We all enjoyed ourselves…even to our sweet little 21-month old Shirley.  When the crowd was leaving, he stood in the middle of the floor and shook hands with almost all the people and said “Good Night”, receiving a warm kiss from quite a number.  But Oh! How soon scenes and conditions change.  On the 23rd of February, our sweet baby Shirley was taken with a fever and a cough, which continued…until the 2nd of March, when it seemed to please God, Our Heavenly Father, to take him home again.  He died at 11:15 a.m. without a struggle…and we are left in great sorrow.  But we have reason to rejoice…The night before he died, my wife’s sister-in-law, William Marble’s wife, dreamed she saw, or in fact almost thinks she did see my wife’s mother, and talked with her.  Among other things she said she did not have time to stop as she was just here on an errand.  That errand proved to be to accompany our dear baby home.  On the 3rd of March, my sister-in-law and two of my wife’s sisters-in-law and a sister, Esther Gray, had prepared some lovely clothing for the baby, dressed him and placed him in his little coffin neatly trimmed, and …all of the family went into the room to look at him.  Of course we were all overcome and weeping bitterly at having to be called upon to view him in that condition when Lo! Gertrude received a vision in which she saw her Grandmother Jackman  standing there a little way from the floor with our dear baby in her arms and holding one of his hands in her own. She looked at my wife, then at the baby, smiled, and disappeared.  We feel greatly blesses to know that heavenly beings should be permitted to come and visit us on this occasion and make known to us our baby was all right.”